If you follow Sexy Style for Joe regularly, you know that Darius recommends implementing sex appeal in your outfits – a central part of his fashion “super course” The Wow! Factor. This is because if you want to differentiate yourself from the hordes of men out there, you have to be comfortable with your sexual side.
Being comfortable with your sexuality is important for body language as well, so:
- Touch the girl
- Bring attention to your sexual body parts
When I was younger, I use to be afraid of touching girls because I thought they would think I was weird or creepy.
However, after I started doing it, I realized I was missing out on a great resource available to me. What actually happens when you touch girls more is that it amplifies the emotion they are feeling, therefore making you more polarizing.
Girls who are attracted to you will likely enjoy it, and girls who aren’t will step away from you.
How do you utilize touching?
When you touch the girl, or person for that matter, never look at your hand at the same time, as this looks try-hard and needy. Avoid this pitfall and you should be safe. It will feel a lot more natural for both of you.
Bottom line, watch her reaction. Does her body come closer to you/turn towards you, or do you feel like she gets more distant? That should help you know if she is interested or not.
Another tip is bringing attention to your body. I learned this by flirting and interacting with women. When a woman likes you (or wants attention) she will often start touching or playing with herself, pun intended. Usually it’s going to be areas like the chest, hands, hair or mouth.
I copied their tactics and now when I want to grab a girl’s attention and make them think about doing naughty stuff (hopefully with me), I simply direct my hand(s) to regions like my mouth, my crotch or my hair. It’s subtle, but sexy.
Thumb on mouth; bring attention to the lips.